Redating an ex years later
Not bothering me, just a bit curious why someone would do this? if your 20 now, assuming he was the same age 4.5 years ago, he was 15.5 years old? But it appears you both are keeping tabs on one another which is normal if a spark is still there.Maybe he never got over you in the sense of the what ever happened to her question. Maybe he was on the sites and saw your profile and glanced at them. Many people want to find out what people are doing once out of high school.Here are a few examples of when you shouldn’t get back with your ex after a year.
Stop contact with your ex, work on making yourself feel better, go on a few dates and try to accept the fact that you two broke up. And perhaps you have been obsessed about your ex for so long that you have mistaken this obsession for love.Each week, Lesley Garner tackles the anxieties and dilemmas that beset modern life.Here, she advises a man who is besotted with his former partner, and a woman who worries about her fiancé's fecklessness We both remarried and I hardly saw my ex-wife until a year ago when she got in touch and said she would like to see me on my own.However, neither of us can be happy except on the very brief occasions we manage to see each other.It seems miraculous for us to be so close and in love again, but I can see no way out.
Yours, Peter Dear Peter, Your problem is one of those that has stuck in my head, partly because it seems like such an impasse and partly because it is not the only letter I have had about the pains and dilemmas of rekindling a love from the past, especially when it threatens everything that has been built up since.